Supporting the Downsizing Journey
Downsizing is a big step — emotionally, mentally and physically.
Whether it’s moving into a smaller home, preparing for retirement, or helping a family member transition to supported living, the process often involves more than just sorting belongings. It’s about acknowledging change, making thoughtful decisions, and letting go at your own pace.
Why people downsize
Downsizing isn’t always just about space. It’s often tied to life stages or a desire for simplicity. Some common reasons include:
Empty nesting or retirement
Wanting a more manageable home
Moving closer to family
Transitioning to aged care or assisted living
Making a move after the loss of a partner or life change
Whatever the reason, the decision to downsize usually comes with a mix of emotions - relief, uncertainty, grief, or even guilt. All of that is completely normal.
Where to begin
One of the biggest hurdles can be figuring out how to start. A few useful tips:
1. Start early if possible
Give yourself time - downsizing can’t always be done in a weekend. Spreading it out makes the process less overwhelming and allows for more thoughtful decisions.
2. Work in small sections
Instead of trying to tackle the whole house, choose one area - a cupboard, drawer or single room. Progress, no matter how small, builds momentum.
3. Keep, donate, pass on
Be realistic about what will fit and be useful in your next space. Items that carry sentimental value but no longer serve a purpose can sometimes be gifted, donated or digitised.
4. Be kind to yourself
It’s not just about sorting items - it’s about processing change. Take breaks, talk things through with a trusted friend or family member, and allow emotions to come up.
Supporting someone else through downsizing
Helping a parent or loved one downsize brings its own challenges. Try to:
Listen more than you lead
Go at their pace
Respect sentimental items, even if they seem trivial
Focus on the benefits of the move, not just the logistics
The process often works best when there’s plenty of time and a calm, supportive approach.
A gentler way forward
Downsizing doesn’t have to mean rushing or getting rid of everything. It can simply be a way to make life a little lighter, more manageable, and better suited to the next stage.
Whether you’re thinking about it for yourself or supporting someone else, know that it’s okay to take it one drawer, one shelf, or one decision at a time.
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